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How to Create More Romance in Your Life: Start with the Heart

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“If you want to change the way you feel about yourself, first you have to change the way you think about yourself.”

Gavin Bird

Do you want to find more romance in your life?

Are you looking for a way to create a more loving relationship with yourself and others?

If so, you’re not alone.

Romance is one of the most sought-after experiences we can have.

Unfortunately, many people don’t know how to create it for themselves.

When most people think of romance, they think of candlelit dinners, poems, walks on the beach, flowers, etc.

It goes without saying that all of those things can be romantic, but in reality they are just extensions of a feeling that comes from within – something that originates in the heart and flows from there.

Romance is actually a reflection of how you feel about yourself.

By romancing yourself first, you create the conditions that allow you to experience and express romance with another more easily.

In this article, we will explore the idea that romance begins in your heart-center and grows outward.

We will discuss the importance of the heart and how healing your heart can help you experience romance in new and wonderful ways.

“It is necessary for us to believe in ourselves in order to become the best person that we can be.”

Quirky Grandma

Creating More Romance in Your Life

Ah, romance, that sensation of heaven on earth, the unbreakable bond between two hearts.

The feeling of intense highs is so fleeting, and for so many it’s a once-in-a-lifetime experience that will never be repeated.

However, does that have to be the case?

Could we cultivate and nurture more romance in our lives?

Romance is one of the most sought-after things in people’s lives.

The pursuit of romance is a goal unto itself for some, or at least high on their list of priorities in a relationship.

We live in a world where romance in committed love relationships is highly regarded.

If so many people desire a more romantic relationship, how can we cultivate, nurture, and encourage romance?

What can we do to ensure that romance germinates and flourishes?

A significant portion of your relationship with yourself is reflected in how you feel about yourself, which is the root of romance.

To put it another way, romance with yourself first can help set up the conditions for more easily experiencing and expressing romance with another.

“You really can achieve your goals, if you believe in yourself and in your abilities, manage your time properly and focus on getting it done.”

Theo Gold

The true meaning of romance goes beyond flowers and poetry.

Although flowers and poetry are lovely, they really just reflect a feeling from the heart, something that begins in it and flows out of it.

Flowers and poems do not express genuine romance without a heart-felt sentiment.

They are merely attempts to be romantic, not true romantic expressions.

So, what can you do to bring more romance into your life?

Make yourself the center of attention.

  • Accept, love, and forgive yourself unconditionally.
  • Take proper care of yourself.
  • Put flowers in your vase.
  • Take time to compose a poem for yourself.
  • Honor and respect yourself.

It is vital to remember that you cannot truly love another person if you don’t first love yourself.

The extent to which you can be loving and accepting of yourself is the extent to which you can be loving and accepting of others.

“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”


Similarly, you can help create romance in a committed loving relationship by your ability and willingness to create romance within yourself.

One way to do that is by taking some time for yourself.

Relax and enjoy your own company.

Take a bath, read your favorite book, take a walk in the park, or do something else that you love.

When you make time for yourself, you are telling yourself that you matter and that you are worth taking care of.

That is a very important message, and one that will help you to open up to romance with others.

Another way to romance yourself is by taking care of your body.

Exercise, eat healthy foods, get enough sleep, and take time to relax.

“Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.”

Coco Chanel

When you feel good about yourself physically, it will be easier for you to feel good about yourself emotionally and romantically.

A third way to romance yourself is by telling yourself how wonderful you are.

When negative thoughts enter your mind, turn them around into something positive.

Write yourself a love letter and read it often!

Create an affirmation that resonates with you and say it to yourself frequently throughout the day.

The more positive affirmations you say to yourself, the more romance you will create in your life.

Lastly, remember that finding the right person is much less important than being the right person.

A relationship with someone is an expression of how we see ourselves. Romance, too, reflects our inner feelings.

If romance isn’t flowing for you right now, it’s probably time to romance yourself first!

Make time for what matters most by giving yourself some “unplugged” time each day where you do something that you love. Connect with your body by eating healthy foods, exercising, and getting enough sleep.

And finally, tell yourself how wonderful you are!

If you create romance within yourself first, you’ll be on track to creating romance in the rest of your life.

“Love yourself no matter who you are or where you come from.”

Diane Guerrero

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